Every day this pup grows on me more and more. Look at the smile on that girl. too cute
Recently, my friend thought I would be better utilized if I focused on him directing movies and me just following his command. It's a pattern I've become all to acquainted with when it comes to Arthur. He's the kind of guy who can't be creative unless he is zapping the energies of those around him. I would like to think that I am the kind of person who takes in the energy of others then shoots it back out...like tennis or volleyball. When Arthur suggested he should direct when he knows full well I want to direct...I was pissed. And it's very apparent that he uses these jabs and trips to further nestle himself into a place where he has direct access to triggers. His Lucy to my Charlie Brown. And every time I get dooped...UNTIL NOW.
Did Arthur say I couldn't direct? No. But he implied it by reducing me to a position that isn't completely what I want to focus on right now. So, who do I get angry with...do I get angry? My first reaction was to complain about it and say I wanted to get away from him but I realize now that it isn't about getting away from this person. Limiting access...yes...Setting boundries...yes. Completely shutting him out? No.
Like a dog inching closer and closer to your sandwich. Let out a sharp...NO and motion for him to go away. There is no need to get upset about this. How can I get upset...I didn't really express how it made me feel. How can I expect someone...especially someone like Arthur...to understand something when he lives his life with his head up his own ass.
So, I've decided to stand up for myself. No lashing out...no change in behavior or routine...just a sharp NO and a finger pointing in another direction. No Harm...No foul.
What's your favorite card game?
UNO!!!
How many email addresses do you have? What are they for?
Submitted by clippedwings.
3
gmail is for film and family
hotmail is for friends and junk I care about
yahoo is for junk I don' t use that one anymore.
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Thought this was very interesting...
US woman arrested over dry lawn | |||
Trouble flared when Utah pensioner Betty Perry, 70, refused to give her name after being upbraided because her garden breached local regulations. She says the officer hit her with handcuffs, cutting her nose, although police insist she slipped and fell. Ms Perry said she was "distraught" after the incident.
She denied accusations she was resisting arrest, maintaining that she only turned to go inside to call her son to fix the confusing dispute. "I tried to sit down and get away from him [the police officer]," she told Utah newspaper the Daily Herald. "I don't know what he's doing. I said: 'What are you doing?' And he hit me with those handcuffs in my face," she said. "He's just trying to cover his tracks, as far as I'm concerned." Set free The officer had judged that Ms Perry's "sadly neglected and dying landscape" breached an Orem city guideline and was attempting to issue a formal caution when the 70-year-old was injured. She was treated in a local hospital for the cut to her nose and for other bruises before being taken to jail. But she was let go when police realised there were "other ways" of finding out her identity without jailing her, a police spokesman said The arresting officer has not been named but has been placed on administrative leave, he added. Ms Perry, who says she has never had a run-in with police in the past, has been offered help by local church leaders to clean up her garden. "I'm very distraught over all this," she said. "I can't believe this happened. Do you ever just wish you could start your day over and it would all be different?" | |||
After a very successful two weeks, I've decided to go and visit "them".
I think it's a combination of lonliness, curiosity with just a dash of guilt.
I will be posting pictures of the new pup tonight.

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